Biting is only natural during sex. It is part of the sexual process.
One of the partners could bite himself/herself while having sex and this would be out of sheer pleasure that she/he is getting, while having sex.
Another reason for biting during sex is that one of the partners might enjoy biting the other partner while having sex.
Yet another reason for biting while having sex is that one partner might enjoy the pleasure/pain of being bitten while having sex and so the other partner is trying his/her best to please the other partner, by biting him/her while having sex.
As we all know that they are different ways of having sex to enjoy it, some like it soft and gentle, and some like rough sex like biting. Sexual biting is a passionate behavior that emerges when people are highly aroused during sex or foreplay. Many people don’t have a reason why they like to bite or scratch. They say it just happens automatically when they’re getting the pleasure that is blowing their minds. Everything is out of control like curling your toes or making that crazy sound O-face isn’t voluntary. In the sexual moment, the body just tends to do its own thing and it seems like every muscle wants to clench up and a person gets carried away than bite. Some people when they’re sexually aroused loses the capacity to recognize how far is too far and end up hurting another person. To gain control you need to take notes from the BDSM culture concerning the importance of safewords.
Sexual biting is also known as odaxelagnia(The act of creating or enhancing sexual arousal through biting). Biting hurts and can be dangerous because human saliva contains at least 50 species of bacteria. Medical researchers showed that human bites have higher rates of infection than other injuries. That is why the safe ward is needed to keep everyone safe from any danger. The majority of women fantasize about incorporating biting into sex. A researcher explained that biting tends or can lead to a fast escalation in arousal, causing the woman you are with to get turned on a lot faster than she would normally do. Sexual biting is an important part of the evolutionary heritage and common in several societies. It appears to be something women enjoy more than men.
Many men and women find biting during sex to be both stimulating and pleasurable, but that doesn’t mean that biting is for every person. If you want to introduce it to your partner or see if she/he likes it, the first thing to do is ask gentle. Try gaining trust from your partner first and show that you’re as focused on their pleasure as your own. Also, try test out without scaring him/her away and don’t force each other to do what you don’t like. Because things can be complicated when your partner comes to you and asks for something that you are not comfortable with or interested in doing.
How to bite properly?
During foreplay talk sexy while you nibbling on his/her neck if your partner seems to enjoy it, ask this “does this turn you?”. After talking about it the choice is yours you can just jump straight into it or rather introduce it slowly and get used to it. You may already know that there are few spots that drive a person wild, just concentrate on those special zones. These include the neck, nipples, clitoris, and thighs. Don’t start biting her here right away instead, nibble around those areas first, and wait until your partner begs you to start going harder. Start with a few slow, soft bites into a hookup, to get your partner comfortable with the idea of using teeth as a sex toy. Try going for it in a gentle way so that your partner experiences biting as a positive and playful pleasure. Also if you like to be more aggressive, ask your partner if he/she is okay with you biting harder. Remember you want to use your teeth as a way to channel your desire, not to freak your partner out.
Sexual biting is a kink that is pretty easy to enjoy without scaring anyone away. As long as this sexual behavior is between two adults and doesn’t cause any physical harm to anyone, it is okay. Have fun and play safe no one needs to get hurt, bite him/her in a gentle and sexy way.
Vatsyayana Kama Sutra has dedicated a chapter 5 of part 2 to biting during sexual union out of part 2 related to Kissing, where to kiss and how, teasing each other and games, signals and hints for the other person, cleanliness, taking care of teeth, hair, body, nails, physical non-sexual forms of intimacy (scratching, poking, biting, slapping, holding her)
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Vatsyayana Kama Sutra
Part 2, Chapter 5 : On Biting, and the means to be employed with regard to women of different countries
ALL the places that can be kissed are also the places that can be bitten, except the upper lip, the interior of the mouth, and the eyes.
The qualities of good teeth are as follows: They should be equal, possessed of a pleasing brightness, capable of being coloured, of proper proportions, unbroken, and with sharp ends.
The defects of teeth on the other hand are that they are blunt, protruding from the gums, rough, soft, large, and loosely set.
The following are the different kinds of biting:
The hidden bite
The swollen bite
The point
The line of points
The coral and the jewel
The line of jewels
The broken cloud
The biting of the boar
The biting, which is shown only by the excessive redness of the skin that is bitten, is called the ‘hidden bite’.
When the skin is pressed down on both sides, it is called the ‘swollen bite’.
When a small portion of the skin is bitten with two teeth only, it is called the ‘point’.
When such small portions of the skin are bitten with all the teeth, it is called the ‘line of points’.
The biting, which is done by bringing together the teeth and the lips, is called the ‘coral and the jewel’. The lip is the coral, and the teeth the jewel.
When biting is done with all the teeth, it is called the ‘line of jewels’.
The biting, which consists of unequal risings in a circle, and which comes from the space between the teeth, is called the ‘broken cloud’. This is impressed on the breasts.
The biting, which consists of many broad rows of marks near to one another, and with red intervals, is called the ‘biting of a boar’. This is impressed on the breasts and the shoulders; and these two last modes of biting are peculiar to persons of intense passion.
The lower lip is the place on which the ‘hidden bite’, the swollen bite’, and the ‘point’ are made; again the ‘swollen bite’ and the ‘coral and the jewel’ bite are done on the cheek. Kissing, pressing with the nails, and biting are the ornaments of the left cheek, and when the word cheek is used it is to be understood as the left cheek.
Both the ‘line of points’ and the ‘line of jewels’ are to be impressed on the throat, the arm pit, and the joints of the thighs; but the ‘line of points’ alone is to be impressed on the forehead and the thighs.
The marking with the nails, and the biting of the following things – an ornament of the forehead, an ear ornament, a bunch of flowers, a betel leaf, or a tamala leaf, which are worn by, or belong to the woman that is beloved – are signs of the desire of enjoyment.
Here end the different kinds of biting.
In the affairs of love a man should do such things as are agreeable to the women of different countries.
The women of the central countries (i.e. between the Ganges and the Jumna) are noble in their character, not accustomed to disgraceful practices, and dislike pressing the nails and biting.
The women of the Balhika country are gained over by striking.
The women of Avantika are fond of foul pleasures, and have not good manners.
The women of the Maharashtra are fond of practising the sixty-four arts, they utter low and harsh words, and like to be spoken to in the same way, and have an impetuous desire of enjoyment.
The women of Pataliputra (i.e. the modern Patna) are of the same nature as the women of the Maharashtra, but show their likings only in secret.
The women of the Dravida country, though they are rubbed and pressed about at the time of sexual enjoyment, have a slow fall of semen, that is they are very slow in the act of coition.
The women of Vanavasi are moderately passionate, they go through every kind of enjoyment, cover their bodies, and abuse those who utter low, mean and harsh words.
The women of Avanti hate kissing, marking with the nails, and biting, but they have a fondness for various kinds of sexual union.
The women of Malwa like embracing and kissing, but not wounding, and they are gained over by striking.
The women of Abhira, and those of the country about the Indus and five rivers (i.e. the Punjab), are gained over by the Auparishtaka or mouth congress.
The women of Aparatika are full of passion, and make slowly the sound ‘Sit’.
The women of the Lat country have even more impetuous desire, and also make the sound ‘Sit’.
The women of the Stri Rajya, and of Koshola (Oude), are full of impetuous desire, their semen falls in large quantities and they are fond of taking medicine to make it do so.
The women of the Andhra country have tender bodies, they are fond of enjoyment, and have a liking for voluptuous pleasures.
The women of Ganda have tender bodies, and speak sweetly.
Now Suvarnanabha is of opinion that that which is agreeable to the nature of a particular person, is of more consequence than that which is agreeable to a whole nation, and that therefore the peculiarities of the country should not be observed in such cases. The various pleasures, the dress, and the sports of one country are in time borrowed by another, and in such a case these things must be considered as belonging originally to that country.
Among the things mentioned above, viz. embracing, kissing, etc., those which increase passion should be done first, and those which are only for amusement or variety should be done afterwards.
There are also some verses on this subject as follows:
‘When a man bites a woman forcibly, she should angrily do the same to him with double force. Thus a “point” should be returned with a “line of points”, and a “line of points” with a “broken cloud”, and if she be excessively chafed, she should at once begin a love quarrel with him. At such a time she should take hold of her lover by the hair, and bend his head down, and kiss his lower lip, and then, being intoxicated with love, she should shut her eyes and bite him in various places. Even by day, and in a place of public resort, when her lover shows her any mark that she may have inflicted on his body, she should smile at the sight of it, and turning her face as if she were going to chide him, she should show him with an angry look the marks on her own body that have been made by him. Thus if men and women act according to each other’s liking, their love for each other will not be lessened even in one hundred years.’
Based entirely on works of Mallanaga Vatsyayana. will be continued based on your responses..
To be continued…