The Missionary position is one of the most common and enjoyable sex positions as it makes for some intimate, close and satisfying sex with your man. This guide is going to show you how to perform the Missionary position for maximum pleasure (i.e. orgasms) along with teaching you some awesome variations to get the most out of it.
Women in on her back with your legs open while man is on top with his legs are in between hers. He can steady himself by resting his weight on his elbows which he positions either side of woman. He can also rest part of his weight on her, but should be careful to make sure that it’s not uncomfortable for her. She can Make sure to tell him if it is uncomfortable or comfortable for her..
What The Man Does In The Missionary Position
The Missionary position is very straightforward and doesn’t require much agility or flexibility at all, so it’s suitable for practically everyone. man will be doing most of the work during Missionary sex, and he simply needs to thrust in and out of her vagina.
While this movement can certainly be pleasurable for lady, She will find that it’s even more pleasurable if he grinds on her at the same time. To do this, he needs to move his pelvis up and down along with thrusting so that his pubic bone can apply pressure onto and around her clitoris.
What The Girl Does In The Missionary Position
When a couple is having sex in the Missionary position, One may feel that because he is on top, that he’s the one in control. But lady also have a great degree of control over how deep he penetrates her along with how much stimulation her clitoris gets.
When the man is on top , She can wrap her arms around his neck or head. Alternatively, she can ‘hook’ herr arms underneath his arms and grab his back so that she can pull herself down onto his penis for slightly deeper penetration.
To Stimulate her Clitoris – If lady want him to stimulate her clitoris more than he already is, then all she need to do is grind it against his pubic bone on every thrust. It will take a little while to get rhythm, hands.
To Make Him Penetrate You Deeper – To get him to penetrate her deeper when having Missionary sex is easy. All she need to do is lift her legs up. Keeping them raised in the air can get tiring, so her best bet is to wrap them around herpartner’s back.
If lady don’t like wrapping her legs around her man, but still long for deeper penetration, then she can put a pillow or cushion under the small of your back/hips area. This will elevate her vagina and allow him to penetrate hermore deeply without lady having to raise her legs.
Viennese oyster Missionary position
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The Viennese oyster position requires great flexibility from the woman to perform. The female lies on her back and moves her legs behind her head, with the groin area being completely exposed. The male partner penetrates the vagina from the top. This is a deep penetrating position and may not be suitable for men with larger than average penis size. However, in most cases, the female will not be flexible enough to achieve this position fully, and will need to stop well before the legs are behind the head. If that is the case, the male partner can help hold the legs in a comfortable position and continue on with intercourse.
Butterfly Missionary position
The woman can lie on her back with her hips on the edge of a platform such as a bed, table, kitchen bench, desk, etc.[28] while the man penetrates her while standing. The woman can move her body freely. She can dangle her legs over the edge or raise them to any height or manner mentioned above. The woman can rest her legs on the man or he can hold them or separate them. The woman has a greater ability to move her pelvis and to arch her back, and the man can raise, support or restrict the movement of her pelvis. The woman is not weighed down by the man’s weight. This position, sometimes called the butterfly position, adds variety to the angle and depth of penetration and generally enables the man to withdraw and then fully thrust the penis, with faster and more forceful thrusts. The downside of this position is that the angle of penetration results in reduced clitoral stimulation, and the woman may need direct clitoral fingering, either by herself or by the man, to achieve orgasm. Alternatively, the woman may either arch her back or raise her torso onto her elbows or arms to reduce the angle and enhance clitoral stimulation. Also, prior to and after the man’s orgasm, the man may need to lie down on the woman.
Riding high Missionary Position
In the riding high missionary variant, the man enters the woman and then shifts his body up and forward toward her head. He then rocks back and forth, stimulating her clitoris with his pelvic bone, or base of his penis. This results in more consistent clitoral stimulation at the cost of a man’s deep thrusting; accordingly, some men prefer to use it during only part of sex
Making Missionary Sex Visionary Sex. Here’s how:
1. Start with some erotic play or foreplay .
Some might consider foreplay, Wise calls erotic play. Foreplay promotes the separation of the beginning from the main event when, in reality, it’s all sex—as long as you’re feeling pleasure, she says. Don’t downplay the buildup, she insists, because it’s super important for getting into and staying in the ideal headspace for what’s to come.
So, instead of relying solely on the sensuality of missionary to make you feel connected to you partner, warm up with a some light vaginal penetration with your fingers or your partner’s,. Or, if that’s not your move, try oral sex as your transition to intercourse so that you and your partner can start building up the mood from the start.
2. some love for nipples
Breasts and nipples are two of your biggest erogenous zones, so give them some pressure, teasing Massage, suck, clamp, or lightly pinch them during sex, And if it’s hands-free nipple stimulation you’re looking for, position yourself underneath your partner for chest-to-chest contact. This way, you can take toys and fingers out of the equation completely while your partner’s chest rubs against yours as they thrust. It might even be enough stimulation for a nipple orgasm.
“Erotic play is important with all positions But because of the intensity of missionary, it’s especially nice to work into it.” (Gradual = less awkward, especially with a newer partner.)
3.Try stimulaying other erogenous zones, too.
Don’t forget to stimulate areas that aren’t between legs or on chest. Some less obvious zones are ears and neck. Ask partner to lightly graze their fingernails against the back of your neck, or put your tongue in their ear after playfully tugging on their earlobe with your teeth.
Of course, what might feel good to you might not be a sexy zone for your partner, so get their okay beforehand or stop if they say it’s not their thing.
4. Find your rhythm.
Sex isn’t a race (unless you’re looking for a quickie). So, instead of rushing for an orgasm, slow down, Focus on your breath and try to sync your exhales with your partner’s. This allows you to savor the sexual sensations you’re experiencing as a unit.
Or, in like in tantric sex, you might exhale into your partner’s mouth while they inhale. Not only is this hot AF, but these deeper breaths will also increase blood flow and circulation to your pelvic area, upping your pleasure,
Still not it? Try switching up your moves while you slow down, Mix up the rhythm by moving your hips in a circular motion instead of simply moving up and down.
5. Play with angles.
The best part of missionary is just how easily you can change the placement and intensity of stimulation—just by switching your body angles.
If you want deeper penetration, place a pillow beneath your lower back to prop up your pelvis, says Wise. Tilting your pelvis upward forces your partner to thrust downward and thus more deeply into you.
If you’re looking for more clitoral stimulation, consider this slight twist on missionary To do it, have your partner move up toward your shoulders so that their penis (or the strap-on) can apply more pressure on your clitoris than usual as they enter you. Instead of thrusting in and out, your partner will grind against your pelvis.
This Variation is a is the single-most powerful position for two reasons,. The first is that it increases stimulation on the external clitoris, which, if that’s what you’re into, will send chills through your body…in a good way. The second is it’s ability to draw out intercourse, meaning you and your partner won’t orgasm after only a few minutes of fun.
Because of the way your partner has to position their body (in order to spotlight your clit), penetration won’t feel quite as deep to them, so it will them a few more thrusts (at least) than usual to climax, Wise explains. It’s the perfect move for those whose partners tend to finish to soon and want to keep things going for as long as possible. .
Contributed by Montu Kumar
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